Absent Minded and Forgetful! Blame genetics!

I was on the phone last night with my parents as I frequently am (I have this fantastic service that lets anyone in Guatemala call me and for them it is only a local call) and my mom was telling us (my father is on one phone, my mother on another and more often that not, they end up catching up on each other's day with me simply listening. I often need to remind them that I am also on the line) that Nandi (my beautiful 20 year old niece) lost her laptop. she then explained that she did not really loose it. She forgot it in the school where she teaches English. When she came back to retrieve it all she found was the laptop case.
My father went on saying that it was a good lesson and that next time she would be more careful with her things.
My mother didn't agree and I didn't either. I started thinking that I am always forgetting things. I have to say that I have been very lucky in my life (knock on wood) because I am always surrounded by people that "watch over me". I cannot count how many times I have left my purse in park benches, restaurants, movie theaters, etc. Amazingly, I always find it and nothing has ever been missing. (knock on wood once more). I believe I lost at least a dozen sweaters in my childhood and I posses absolutely no sense of direction.
I don't think I am an irresponsible person, I am simply absent minded. The fact that I loose something today does not mean that I will be "more careful" with my things tomorrow. I can say this with a straight face because I have been trying all my life. I now do things like not bringing a purse at all or making lists to make sure I don't forget stuff.
When I think about it, my wonderful beloved mother is 10 times worse and has been all her life. She is a very accomplished business woman who has managed to raise 6 children and run a busy household, yet she is always forgetful an dare I say... a little chaotic.
So, I feel for my niece. I actually think it is a genetic defect that runs in my family. I am not trying to excuse our behaviour. I am simply stating factual history. I guess we can always keep trying to do better and thank God for the people in our life that love us regardless of our flaws.

Do Not Use The Water, I am Taking a Shower!!!!!!

This is what we are used to shouting before stepping into the shower in my house. The kids normally take showers in the evening and I have to make sure that I fill pots with water or wash vegetables, etc. before they step into the bathroom because if while in the shower, anyone else in the house turns any other faucet on, you will instantly get re-invigorated in the form of very, very cold water. In the morning ,this is my normal routine....
ME: "la, la, la, la... oh what a wonderful , nice, hot shower I am taking this morning." "AAHHHGH! PATRICK TURN OFF THE FAUCET!"
Patrick: "Sorry Schatz, I was brushing my teeth".
me: "Oh, O.K..... la, la, la AAAHHHHGH! Patrick, what now?"
Patrick: "I am trying to shave, do you mind?"
me: "Yes I mind. It is freezing, you know!"
Patrick: "Well, suck it up!!!"
... needless to say, I don't suck it up. I blame him for daring to even think of approaching a faucet while I am taking a shower. I blame the piping for not working right. I blame the water for being too cold and then too hot. I blame the bathroom for ...well I blame the bathroom for being ugly. This last one has nothing to do with the water temperature, but I still thought it was important to point out.
We realized this interesting detail about the water flow in our home after we moved in over 4 years ago. A couple of years later we installed a bigger water heater thinking that it would solve the problem... but it did not.
Our contractor Scott, called me this morning and told me that he now figured out why this was happenning. It just so happens that someone along the way (the house is 37 years old) mixed the water lines... the cold line goes to the hot or something like that.
The promising news is that since he found the problem, he will fix it (at least that is the plan)!
You might take normal hot, uninterrupted showers for granted, but for us it will be a huge upgrade.

More of the 2008 Calendar

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Diego Breaking Boards (hearts will surely come later)

Diego during his "Green-one" karate test. He had broken one the day before, so he was not too worried about it. I surely was. If you don't break your board, you don't get your new belt. Imagine the disappointment. Thank God everything went really well.

Isabel and Diego- 2008 Calendar

We started giving calendars of the kids to our family in 2003 or 2004 (I can't remember). A couple of years ago we simply did not have the time to go through all the pictures and perform the great "calendar task". We thought, "Oh well, I guess there will be no calendar this year and that will be that". Wrong! Both Patrick's family and mine complained and demanded a calendar.
We gave in an finally created one that starts in April.
Now that has become the new tradition. We always give the calendars starting in April which actually has a couple of advantages from your normal January through December variety.
There is first of all the originality aspect. The end of the year is already swamped with things to do and this project always takes longer than anticipated. My favorite reason why giving the calendars in Spring is a good idea is that we have found them for sale. I guess calendars are not in big demand in March and we are more than happy to take advantage of that.
Well, I just ordered this year's run and wanted to share the pictures with you. These are the finalists...



For some reason this thing only let me upload 4 pictures, I will make new posts with the rest...